Sunday, December 5, 2010

Quote for the day

Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain -- and most do.
-- Dale Carnegie

Thursday, November 25, 2010

He loved…

Stanley Bronner

March 19, 1923 – November 15, 2010


He loved…

He loved music, dancing, education, sharing stories and family – mostly family.

I talk a lot about my parents being my heros, how they were role models in showing us how you can accomplish anything if you put your mind to it.

Like all the children of the survivors I saw this in action and learned it through his sage wisdom. Most of his advice started with “If a person wants to make something of himself ...”

I moved away for a few years and when I returned, like Mark Twain, I realized how much smarter my father had become while I was away.

His advice became clearer in its importance to me as I raised my own family, grew my own business and stayed true to the integrity in which I was raised.

No matter what we might think at the moment, we are the product of the people around us, the end result of how we were raised .. and for that Daddy, I thank you.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Yanov Torah's Story Continues...

Jews in the Yanov labor camp in occupied Poland secretly defied their Nazi guards by unearthing a Torah scroll which had been buried in the cemetery, cutting the scroll into sections and bounding this parchment around their bodies under their clothing to sneak it into the camp, piece by piece. Inside the camp, the fragments were hidden inside bedposts, under floorboards, wherever they could be hidden. After the camp was liberated in 1945, one survivor collected the scattered parchment and assembled it into one ragged, warped and stained scroll. Thirty years later, the scroll found its way to Los Angeles into the hands of Rabbi Erwin Herman who devoted the final years of his life telling its incredible story.

During an autumn Friday night service, the scroll came to our Temple and its congregants in Los Angeles, where we had an opportunity to open it and hold it, and to learn about a miraculous tale of dedication and survival.

For me, this was a tremendous moment. Even as a child of the sixties where our feminist movement took a turning point in the home and workplace, it hadn't in our religious sectors quite yet. I grew up in a less then reformed congregation, not allowed to approach the bima or read from the Torah, my Bat Mitzvah, just blocks from where this took place, allowed me only the privilege of reading the Haftorah blessings.

Not only, did I, a woman, touch the torah but every man, woman and child in the synagogue held a portion of it as it became unrolled and stretched for all, encircling the room. I had no idea how profound an effect that would have on me -- even now, months later, I am touched to tears as I recall the moment.

I'm not sure if it was the act of being able to participate as an equal in our jewish faith that did it for me, or holding something solid that brought my families struggle from the Concentration Camps of Poland out of the stories and into the reality of Los Angeles that caused the overwhelming emotions to surface. It could have been the amazing individuals that risked their lives to continue their Jewish life in such a defiant manner or the fact that my children were here to benefit from the Yanov Torah's journey. Whatever it was, the impact was clear and each one of us will experience that in their own way as the story touches their lives.